Have you ever noticed how beauty is a conversation starter? Men claim that they can bond over a good glass f lager. Women can do the same just exchanging beauty tips. There are hundreds and thousands of beauty tips available – the ones your mother knows, the secret family tips, the hundred thousand ones provided by the internet, beauty books, beauty soaps, beauty adverts and so on.
What is beauty then? Is beauty about having fairer skin like that promoted by hundreds of beauty products or is it about being slim like the eons of fashion models or is it even about wearing the right clothes? Beauty is about neither. Beauty is entirely about and yourself.
Beauty does not come from wearing loads of make up or the latest fads. It comes from an innate confidence. A confident woman is probably the most attractive person in the room. A huge part of the beauty equation also lies in honesty and authenticity. People can sense sincerity from a mile away. Besides, it is so much easier to be yourself instead of putting on a pretense.
Learn to be your very own role model. Don’t aim to be like the latest Hollywood actress on the block. Aim to be yourself and work with what you have. Aim to be the best you can be. Give yourself your full 100%. Learn to love yourself. When you accept yourself it shows and that shines through more brightly than any cosmetic product ever invented. Your personality, energy and truthfulness are some of the biggest turn-ons that you can possess. Learn to groom those!
Do not mistake frumpiness for being beautiful. Learn to dress well. While this does not mean that you have to rush to own the latest style, it does mean that you should dress smartly and accentuate your feminism. Dress in what makes you feel comfortable and good about yourself. Appreciate your own look first! It could be a beautiful dress or a nice cocktail gown – the point is to buy something that accentuates your personality!
You are beautiful, so own it!